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The Candy Bag
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A supplemental companion to the podcast.
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Everyone Noticed Your Stupid Shirt - spotlight effect
When something changes in your business, it can feel like everyone noticed. A strange experiment involving an embarrassing Barry Manilow T-shirt suggests otherwise. Patrick looks at the spotlight effect, filmmaking, real estate, and our tendency to assume everyone else is paying much more attention than they actually are.

Patrick
6 hours ago4 min read


Before You Change Your Real Estate Strategy, Figure Out Why You’re Stuck: feeling stuck in real estate
Knowing what to do doesn't always mean you'll do it. After 20 years in real estate, Kathryn Stelljes has learned that feeling stuck isn't always a strategy problem. Sometimes you need more information, sometimes you need more support, and sometimes you simply need to make the next commitment smaller.

Kathryn
2 days ago4 min read


Real Estate Production Goals That Guide Your Week
Most agents either skip setting a production goal or choose a number that sounds right. Here is how to set a real estate production goal that connects to the business and life you want to build.

Kathryn
Sep 42 min read


Filming It Isn’t Finishing It: follow-through
The visible part of the work feels like the whole thing. But filming it is not finishing it. Patrick Fatica uses The Snowman as a warning about missing pieces, skipped follow-through, and why the second half of the work is usually where the result gets made.

Patrick
Jul 123 min read


Preparation vs. Hiding: real estate agent preparation
Preparation matters in real estate, but sometimes the work that looks productive is actually keeping you away from the conversation that would move your business forward.

Kathryn
Jun 193 min read


Your Availability Is Not Your Value: real estate agent value
Many real estate agents confuse being available with being valuable. Here’s how to show clients the real value of your expertise and guidance.

Kathryn
Jun 123 min read


The Part of Building a Business That Nobody Sees: The Entrepreneur Internal Struggle
Behind business growth is often an invisible emotional battle. This post explores leadership stress, burnout, over-responsibility, and the internal pressure many entrepreneurs experience while building a successful real estate business.

Kathryn
May 225 min read
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