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The Centennial Light Bulb: Real Estate Agent Follow-Up
A 125-year-old light bulb in Livermore became famous by staying on. For real estate agents, the small personal follow-ups that keep a client relationship warm can work the same way.

Patrick
Sep 63 min read


Real Estate Production Goals That Guide Your Week
Most agents either skip setting a production goal or choose a number that sounds right. Here is how to set a real estate production goal that connects to the business and life you want to build.

Kathryn
Sep 42 min read


The Business Was Working. I Had Still Outgrown It: outgrowing your real estate business
Kathryn’s real estate business was growing, but the home-office structure that helped her begin could no longer support what came next. Here is how she recognized that the business was not broken. She had simply outgrown the way she was running it.

Kathryn
Aug 263 min read


Building a Business Around the Exception: survivorship bias in business
A success story can prove that something happened. It can’t tell you how likely the same result is for everyone else. Patrick looks at the danger of building business decisions around the exception instead of the ordinary outcome.
Patrick Fatica
Aug 213 min read


What Are You Building All of This For? Your purpose in real estate
Real estate agents spend a lot of time thinking about listings, closings, and production. After hearing a conversation about longevity and purpose, Kathryn began thinking about a bigger question: What do you want your business to make possible?

Kathryn
Aug 213 min read


The Target Came Second: mistaking luck for a plan - real estate business goals
A good result does not always prove the plan worked. Patrick uses an archer who paints the target afterward to look at luck, intention, and what deserves credit.

Patrick
Aug 163 min read


The Work You Enjoy Doesn't Get to Decide How Important It Is: real estate agent productivity
The work you enjoy is not automatically the work your business needs most. Kathryn explains how comfortable support work can quietly take over a real estate agent’s day.

Kathryn
Aug 144 min read


The Concrete Knew What to Do Next: resilient business systems
Researchers once assumed the white chunks inside ancient Roman concrete were evidence of poor mixing. Instead, those pieces may have helped repair cracks when water got inside. It raises a useful question: Does your system only work when everything goes right, or does it know what to do next?

Patrick
Aug 93 min read


Don’t Delete Someone Just Because They Have an Agent: real estate database follow-up
When someone tells you they already have an agent, respect that relationship—but don’t assume your connection no longer matters. Their situation may change, and the relationship you built is still worth maintaining.

Kathryn
Aug 71 min read


Take 99 Wasn't the Point: real estate prospecting practice
David Fincher's famous 99-take opening for *The Social Network* was not one failed attempt repeated endlessly. It was a process for getting beyond rehearsal.

Patrick
Aug 24 min read


Your Services Are Not What Make You Different: real estate agent value proposition
Sellers have heard the standard list of real estate services before. What they really want to understand is why working with you would create a different experience.

Kathryn
Jul 313 min read


It Never Worked. I Kept It Anyway: giving up too soon
For 30 years, Patrick described an old tabletop lighter as broken. The truth was less dramatic: he had pressed the button, gotten no result and never completed the steps required to make it work.
Patrick Fatica
Jul 264 min read


Why New Agents Think They Should Start Farming: real estate farming for new agents
Farming looks professional, organized, and less uncomfortable than calling people. That is exactly why so many new real estate agents are drawn to it before their business is ready to support it.

Kathryn
Jul 243 min read


The Next Attempt Shouldn’t Have to Pay for the Last One: learning from failure
After 1941, Steven Spielberg approached Raiders of the Lost Ark with more discipline—but he did not make a smaller, safer movie. There is a difference between learning from a failure and letting it frighten you out of trying again.
Patrick Fatica
Jul 194 min read


You’re Scoring the First Call With the Wrong Number: lead and lag indicators in real estate
The first call may have worked exactly the way it was supposed to. The problem is that many agents use the final result to grade an early step.

Kathryn
Jul 173 min read


Filming It Isn’t Finishing It: follow-through
The visible part of the work feels like the whole thing. But filming it is not finishing it. Patrick Fatica uses The Snowman as a warning about missing pieces, skipped follow-through, and why the second half of the work is usually where the result gets made.

Patrick
Jul 123 min read


Stop Letting One Bad Saturday Make Business Decisions for You: open house lead generation
One quiet open house can make an agent want to quit the whole lead source. But one bad Saturday is not enough information to make a business decision. Before you decide something does not work, look at whether you tracked it, followed up, and gave it enough time.

Kathryn
Jul 104 min read


A Garden Does Not Care About Panic: Reactionary Behavior
A garden does not respond to panic. It responds to what has been happening all along: care, time, repetition, and the boring maintenance no one notices until something finally blooms.

Patrick
Jul 53 min read


Silence Is Not Always Rejection: Sphere Follow-up
When someone from your sphere does not answer, it is easy to assume they are annoyed or rejecting you. But most of the time, people are simply busy. This post helps real estate agents stop overreading silence and stay consistent with respectful sphere follow-up.

Kathryn
Jul 33 min read


The Menu Was Huge. The Rules Were Not. The Kenny Shopsin Restaurant Rules
Shopsin’s looked like a restaurant that said yes to everything. Nearly a thousand menu items. Strange combinations. Old New York chaos. But the reason it worked was not endless accommodation. It worked because the rules were clear.

Patrick
Jun 283 min read
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